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New and/or interesting

• Lindsay Beyerstein’s political blog Focal Point at Big Think
• Echidne of the Snakes
• Harriet Jacob’s Fugitivus
• Go Back to Bed Shop (“Woman owned, mother approved”)
• GoBacktoBed’s Blog
• Kelly Diels’ Cleavage
• Kelly Diels’ Cleavage
• Back Up Your Birth Control
• Naomi Mc’s Vagina Dentata
• Christian Nymphos
• Lillie Yifu’s 2nd Sex
• K’s Feminists with FDS
• Em & Lo
• Jill’s Savage Death Island (a.k.a. Twisty Faster’s I Blame the Patriarchy
• Holly’s The Pervocracy
• Partners: Veronica of Another Suburban Mom
  and Hubman of Hubman’s Hangout
• Intersex Society of North America
• Below the Belt: Deconstructing Gender
• Violence Unsilenced
• Amanda Marcotte & Co’s Pandagon
• Camera Play for Couples
• Blue Gal
• Feministe
• Beyond the Birds and the Bees
• Debauched Domestic Diva
• Alas, A Blog
• Feministing.com
• St. James Infirmary (Bay Area Clinic)
• Whole DC sex-positive community center
• Annajcook’s Future Feminist Librarian-Activist
• Susie Bright’s Journal
• Sungold’s Kittywampus
• Hugo Schwyzer
• Adolescent Sexuality by Dr. Karen Rayne
• xkcd
• Britni Danielle’s Oh My God, That Britni’s Shameless
• Crawford, Bartow et al.‘s Feminist Law Professors
• Dr. Kate’s Gynotalk
• 13 Messages
• Cherry.tv
• Yes Means Yes
• Anastasia’s Sexualité
• Susannah Breslin’s The Reverse Cowgirl
• Freethinker’s Notes of a Freethinker
• Regender.com
• Sociological Images
• Male Submission Art
• Erotica Cover Watch
• The Butterfly Temptress
• BestSexBloggers.com
• Laura Agustín’s Border Thinking on Migration, Culture, Economy and Sex
• Sarah Haskin’s “About” Page at Current.com
• Rori’s Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008
• National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
• Amanda Brooks’ After Hours
• The Frisky
• Hot Blogger Calendar
• Pepomint’s Freaksexual
• Sex Geek
• On Top of the Sheet With the Light On and Your Mom Watching
• RH Reality Check
• Kink In Exile
• Michelle Obama Watch from What About Our Daughters
• The F-Word Blog
• lumpesse
• Goose and Gander
• Feminist Mormon Housewives
• Bitchy Jones’s Diary
• Catherine Morgan’s 274 (and counting) Women Blogging On Politics
• Real Live Lesbian
• Dacia’s The Naked City
• Full-Frontal Friday (should be self-explanatory)
• Kathy G’s The G-Spot
• The Sex Workers Project
• The Sensual Vegan
• Suzanne Reisman’s Campaign for Un-Shaved Snatch
• Z’s The Naked Truth
• Suzy’s My Naked Truth
• M.Yu’s The Jade Gate
• Marianne’s Indescretion
• Prom Queen Subdued
• Elizaveta Mora’s Vespertine Erotica
• Tara Tainton
• Bunny’s Rabbit Gone Wrong
• Connecticut Man1 (why not?)
• R. Hayes’ Fors Clavigera
• Duke Orsineo’s Illyrical Despatches
• Cyrao Q’s Aiming to Arouse
• SnowdropExplodes
• Sugar Mag’s Random Thoughts
• Mayy May’s May Be Maimed But Never Harmed
• ClueChick
• Ell’s Wilful Damage
• Calico’s Dominatrix Next Door
• BadInfluenceGirl
• Ily’s Asexy Beast
• Bitch Ph.D
• Whatsername’s The Jaded Hippie
• Roy’s No Cookies For Me
• Peppermint’s Freaksexual
• Deaf Bunny
• 2007 Blogger Boobie-thon
• Collegecallgirl’s Confessions of a College Callgirl
• Mr. Devereux’s Gentleman Gigilo
• Feel your boobies
• Marcelle Manhattan’s Segesis
• Hotties of Harm Reduction (calendar project)
• Female-led Relationships
• Taken in Hand
• Mike and Eva’s Eva’s Cute Feet
• Vixen’s Secrets of a Blue Eyed Vixen
• Andrea Zanin’s Sex Geek
• Hathor’s Hathor-Sikhmet
• ActForLove.org (progressive personals site)
• Infra’s Skin::filter()
• Heather Corrina’s Pure as the driven slush
• Melissa Gira’s Sexerati
• Cassandra Says
• Cheri’s Secret lover’s lane
• Dirty filty princess
• Elizabeth Anne Wood’s Sex in the public square
• Shay’s The S-Spot
• Smart Girls Who Do It
• Toys in Babeland Blog
• The Beautiful Kind
• A’s A changing life
• Jefferson’s One Life Take Two
• Girlspoke
• Sexuality and Religion: What’s the Connection?
• Lena Chen’s Sex and the ivy
• Blowfish.com
• Hardley Surton’s Babes with books
• Scarleteen
• Justin & Carrie’s Sex in Art

A

• Amber’s Being Amber Rhea
• AAG’s AlwaysArousedGirl
• Aughra’s Bad News Blonde
• Anastasia’s Sexualité
• Aliza’s Beautiful Creature

B-C

• Bacchus and Aphrodite’s ErosBlog
• Bliss’s The Strait of Messia
• Blue Gal
• Bonnie’s My Bottom Smarts
• Cat’s Never judge a book by its cover
• Chelsea Girl’s pretty dumb things
• Cherry Bomb’s Queen of Cream
• Confessions of a libertine

D-E

• Dacia’s Waking Vixen
• Debra Haffner’s Sexuality and Religion
• Darkneuro’s House of Musings
• Debbie’s Dirty Little Diary
• Desire X
• DH’s DH Blog Spicy
• Dirty Girl’s Dirty Little Mind
• DTG’s Pussy Talk
• EA’s Easily Aroused
• Ema’s The well-timed period
• Emma’s Mommy has a headache
• Evilicious Blonde

F-I

• Fay Flam’s Carnal Knowledge Columns
• Flea’s One Good Thing
• Fleshbot Sex Roundup
• FTN’s Fade to Numb
• Hannah’s Down the Rabbit Hole
• Hedonistic Pleasureseeker
• Holly’s Self-portrait as…

J-K

• Jennifer’s Activist on a mission to initiate change…
• Joey Madison’s Secrets on Madison Avenue
• Juno’s The erotic journal of Juno Henry
• Just a Girl’s Hit The JaG Spot!
• Ken and Ariel’s KenAndAriel
• Kim’s Mercurial Girl

L

• Laurie Toby Edison’s Body impolitic
• Laura’s 1000 Words
• Linny’s Spinster War Diaries
• Literate Perversions
• LushlyMe’s LushlyAlive
• Lynn Gazis-Sax’s Noli Irritare Leones -(sexuality category)

M

• Madeline in the Mirror
• Mighty69’s Everyday nakedness
• Minerva’s A Woman of Many Parts
• Minx’s Emerging on the other side
• Miss Syl’s Sexeteria
• Mister Nice Guy
• Mistress Matisse’s Journal
• Mohja Kahf’s Sex and the Umma
• Monk’s …and the strangest things seem, suddenly routine
• Monmouth’s Rentboy Diaries

N-R

• Nicole’s By what shall we call her?
• Obasso’s HNT
• O’s Eros, Logos
• Pandora’s Box
• Patty’s Creative Spanko Wench
• Phllip’s HotAction.com
• Plum’s Plum, a ripening
• Queen of Ass
• Rachelkb’s Lusty Lady
• Red Frique’s Getting my frique on
• Red Velvet’s Inside the Velvet Rope
• Red’s The Red Sneaker Diaries
• Regina Lynn’s SexRev 2.0
• Richard’s Down On My Knees
• Richard Evans Lee’s Sexy pop culture
• Rollertrain’s Small Adult World
• Rupert’s Muffboxfilms

S

• Samantha Wolov’s Nekkid with a camera
• Sasha’s Sex – Dark Side of the Moon
• Satin Kitty
• SD’s Salacious Desires
• Sex is Funny
• Sex SIG’s Sex and Games
• Sex with Rex and Roxy
• Sexblo.gs
• Shake’s Great shakes
• SingleAgain’s My version of a single womans life
• Slow Learner
• So Gone’s He Doesn’t Want Me
• Spoon’s Chez Spoon
• Stefanie’s Ex-millennial girl
• StripGoddess’s Sensual Exhibitionist
• SugarBank
• Sunney’s Just me and my thoughts
• Sxxxy.org

T-Z

• Tell Your Sex Story
• Tess’s Urban Gypsy
• ThatGirl’s That Girl’s life
• The 30-year-old virgin
• The Feminarian’s Feminary
• The Hot Librarian
• TheGirl’s Girl with a one-track mind
• Theresa and Lu’s 2 hot chiks
• Tony Comstock’s TC’s Blog
• Trix’s Bated breath
• Tweed’s Knit Porn
• Violet Blue’s Tiny Nibbles
• Viviane’s Sex Carnival
• Vixen’s Bad girl’s guide
• Vixen’s Radical Vixen
• VS’s Dilemmas of a Virgin Slut
• W.S. Cross’s Beyond you and me
• Whirlbrain’s Pureedthought
• Wombat and Aspen’s Kiss and Blog

Reference

Library

• Pepper Schwartz’s “Prime”
• Esther Perel’s “Mating in Captivity”
• Murray S. Davis’s “Smut: Everyday Reality – Obscene Ideology”
• Ladas, Whipple & Perry’s “The G-Spot”
• Shulamith Firestone’s “The Dialectics of Sex”
• Elizabeth Abbott’s “A History of Celibacy”
• Stephanie Coontz: Marriage, a History
• Joan Sewell’s “I’d Rather Eat Chocolate”
• Ehrenreich & English’s “For Her Own Good”
• Heather Corrina’s “S.E.X.”

Sites

• ProKanDo (pro-choice folks out of Kansas)
• Fatale Media
• Abstience Clearinghouse
• Literotica
• APA’s Pregnancy loss (miscarriage/stillbirth) resource page
• Regender.com
• Snopes: The “all intercourse is rape” myth
• Planned Parenthood Birth-control page
• Something awful’s Horrors of porn
• Fatale Media
• AgelessLove.com
• (Comparative) Erection Photos
• A Woman’s Touch Sexuality Resource Center – Madison, Wisconsin
• Abby Winter’s Abbywinters.com
• Adult DVD Talk
• Adult Sexuality Web
• Aphrodite: Women’s Health Discussion Forums
• AskMen.com
• ASO Community
• ASSTR.ORG [see review]
• AVEN: Asexual Visibility & Education Network
• BDSM: A Guide for Nice Guys
• Betty Dodson’s Masturbation
• Blog Safer: The Anoniblogging Wiki
• Clitical Sex Related Articles: Familiarizing Yourself with the Female Form
• Clitical.com The Ultimate Female Masturbation And Sexuality Information Site.
• Cunt: A Cultural History
• Dr Gonzales’s Celebrated Reality Sex Guide: Penetrate the Tao of Porn
• Erotic podcasts for your MP3 player at Digital Podcast
• Ezine at Ms Naughty Porn for Women
• Female Masturbation – On Camera
• Feminist Perspectives on Sex Markets
• GirlPower: Glamour photo retouches
• Google Tutor & Advisor
• Guttmacher Institute
• Heartchoice.com the Practical Professional Advice on Relationships
• hellyeah v.2::sex
• Hippie Goddess
• Holistic Wisdom, Inc.
• Homemade Sex Toys for Women: Blanket Pull
• Human Rights Campaign | Home Page
• Jane Duvall’s JanesGuide
• JoseyVogels
• Kirsten Anderberg’s Online Vulva Museum
• Belladona’s The lipstick lesbian page
• Matthew Hunt’s Cunt: A Cultural History.
• Ms. Kitka’s Red Chronicle
• Muslim WakeUp! Sex & the Umma
• Paul & Lori’s The Marriage Bed – Sex and Intimacy for Married Christians
• Sexual Advice – Sex Education and Expert Sex Advice at MyPleasure
• Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein, Ph.D.
• tacit: More on the Green-Eyed Monster, or Fixing the Refrigerator for Love and Profit
• The Alan Guttmacher Institute: Home Page
• The Anal Conspiracy — from Craig’s List
• The Sinclair Intimacy Institute’s Better Sex
• Tony Comstock’s Comstock Films
• village voice: Erotic etiquette
• Working girls : prostitutes, their life and social control [Australian studies in law, crime and justice]